Everyone is busy these days so it is necessary to prioritise from the most important, through to least important on your list of things to do. Most people have a list, whether they write it down or not. Because we all come from a variety of backgrounds, we naturally measure our priorities differently.
This was one of the main issues raised at Novel Tea 'n Pages first Writers' Club meeting held on Saturday, 12 March, 2011, where a small group of people who love to write or who would like the opportunity to write met up and discussed their objectives and hopes.
Finding time for the 'luxury' of writing is not always the top of people's priority lists. But, as they say, if you value something, you will make time for it. Some members crossed this bridge when it came time to commit to participating in a writing group situation. Some members were at a crossroads, tossing up whether they should commit to such an activity or not. For whilst writing for them was a priority, it was way down on the list of must dos. Were there perhaps, more important things they should be doing for their families, they questioned. Luckily, they had very supportive spouses who encouraged them to come along and try it out for themselves.
How many of us feel like this? It is very common for women especially, feel this way. These are very real issues faced by some who want to write but find it hard to justify the amount of time that will be spent doing it, especially when there are so many other ways to 'fill up' our life.
There is no doubt family is important, and that is totally another topic for conversation.
However, it is also very important to have some balance in your life. A lot of people sacrifice themselves for the good of the family and then wonder why they sometimes feel resentful, or feel like they have no time for themselves. Everyone needs, and should allocate time for themselves, to do something they really enjoy. There are lots of options out there, but specifically today, we are discussing writing.
Today, was a good outcome though. For those who may have felt some reluctance decided to come along anyway at the encouragement of their spouses, and were decidedly happy they made the effort. They discovered that once they committed themselves to the first meeting and wrote down their objectives and desires for writing, it enabled them to spend some time thinking specifically about what they hoped to gain and to write down their aims. This brought a delicious sense of fulfilment and purpose, and gave them direction. It inspired them.
The role of writing groups:
Writing groups play a very important role for writers. They are the perfect way to keep writers accountable and help them schedule regular writing sessions and it gives them a purpose to show up.
Writing can easily be regarded as a hobby. Some people play sport, some paint and so, why not write? If you love it, then it could be the perfect outlet for you.
There are several important reasons for bringing writers together:
- Writing is inevitability a solitary activity so, joining a group is an excellent way to share your interest with others who understand the pressures and joys of being a writer.
- It is also important to receive constructive feedback on work in progress. It is often difficult to remain objective about your own work and whilst friends and family are always keen to lend a hand, unless they are in the writing industry, it is hard for them to give helpful and focused feedback that is required.
It is hoped that Novel Tea 'n Pages can grow to be a supportive and friendly group of writers who can be there for each other along the various journeys our members take. There is room for beginner writers and critiques, and well as the experienced. We all have to start somewhere and it is our hope to develop critiques and writers who are sensitive to all.
Today was the start of what is hoped...a wonderful journey for many.
So, until next time...
happy writing...
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