Showing posts with label love. Show all posts
Showing posts with label love. Show all posts

Wednesday, April 13, 2011

April 2011 Book Club: 'Eat Pray Love' by Elizabeth Gilbert

Take some tasty, chocolatey mudslide cakes and other small delicacies piled high atop pretty plates as well as gooey chocolate mini Easter eggs brimming to overflow in petite glassware and combine with tinkling china teacups and light conversation and you now have an image of the way this month's book club kicked off. And, what better way to celebrate this month's title, Eat Pray Love by Elizabeth Gilbert?

We had a small number who turned out for our April's meeting and, whilst the numbers were smaller this month, the discussion and social interaction, (which is a major focus in our club) was large. There are always plenty of opportunities to enjoy light-hearted banter and catch-up socially, but we always manage to balance it with an engaging discussion about the book of the month. How deeply we discuss a book depends upon the dynamics of the group. Each month we allow ourselves to be led by the feel of the group and usually, our reading guides.

Eat Pray Love was generally received with mixed feelings. Some readers loved the book, while others didn't, and still others enjoyed parts of it whilst other parts, not so. It was a mixed bag of thoughts and feelings. This is the type of book that makes for great discussion, especially with such a variety of feelings floating around, and depending upon how strong some of those feelings were.

Eat Pray Love falls within the travel documentary genre and if you've visited the bookstores lately, it doesn't take you very long to figure out that it is a very popular genre. Many writers take the opportunity to combine their love of travel and writing as a way to turn out running commentaries on their experiences. And who wouldn't mind doing that, especially if it became a major seller?

Because of the number of travel writers, it is often hard to choose the exact book you want and, on the flip side, as a writer with strong competitors, you need to have the cutting edge; a unique way that sets you apart from all the rest, namely, the Black Caviar of the field (speaking in horse racing terms).

Eat Pray Love is one of those major sellers I just mentioned.Why? Just what did Elizabeth Gilbert do that set her apart from all the rest?

Well, that question makes for much discussion, but she obviously struck a chord with a large proportion of the western population. Was it the entrapment of marriage, outgrown and now loveless that readers connected with, or was it the chance to travel with the author and visit three countries that they had not visited before? Or maybe readers simply wanted to experience the food, culture, meditation and prayer along with the author, and connected with these aspects. Who knows? But what became obvious from listening to our book club members was that the book, or at least parts of the book meant something different for each of them based on their own experiences, their culture, their views on life and religion, and where they were now in their life. So too, I think, for the general population.

This is a book that you choose for personal reasons and not based on the recommendation by others. This is a book that the author must have the edge; the Black Caviar of the racing field.

I know personally, that with all the hype that surrounded this book, even before the movie came out, I ummed and ahhhhed about it. Oprah and her Book Club (which I respect) had sanctioned and promoted it and the general population raved about it.

For me, it took many visits to a variety of book stores, where it wooed me before I purchased a copy. As I wandered around the stores, looking at new and old titles, it always managed to intrigue me when I found it displayed. I'd pick it up and fondle it, run my fingers over its front cover. I'd hold it and read the back cover then carry it around the store with me, only to return it back to its rightful place on the shelf, edged out by other titles more pressing for me to take home. Finally though, one day I eventually felt sorry enough for it. I'd had enough of it begging me to take it home like an orphaned puppy. I finally decided it was its turn to come home to my place. Why this time? I don't know. Perhaps I was finally curious enough for it.

Was I glad? Was it worth the purchase? For me - definitely. I thoroughly enjoyed it and was glad to have shared some of my time with this author and her tale of self discovery. Elizabeth Gilbert is a writer who is easy to read. She kept the language simple and the themes a little more complex. I enjoyed her writing technique so much so that now I would like to read her other documentary called The Last American Man.

Novel Tea 'n Pages recommends Eat Pray Love to those book lovers where it either 'jumps out at you' (blatantly) or if it woos you. No matter what way - it will get you. Good luck. All I can say is, enjoy it for what it is.

So, until next time,
happy reading...

Saturday, June 26, 2010

'The Story of a Marriage' by Andrew Sean Greer

You would think life should be simple. We are born, we grow and develop into the person we were designed to be. Most of us grow up in families and trust what we see, know and hear. Our families and environments shape us. As we age and learn more about ourselves, one would tend to think that life and experience would become more certain.

But how does it often turns out that we are mistaken? For some of us, the longer we live the less we know about ourselves and the ones we count on. Things of certainty can often crumble and cause us to turn inward, take the blinkers off and study our lives and loves more deeply.

"We think we know the ones we love."

And, this is the case for Pearlie...the main protagonist for 'The Story of a Marriage' by Andrew Sean Greer.

Novel Tea 'n Pages book club members are currently reading this book and will be meeting on Wednesday evening, 7 July 2010 at 7:30pm to discuss the intricacies of life and love and Pearlie's world.

If you are reading this and would like to become involved, new members are always welcome. Leave a message for Deb via comments and she will send you details.

But, until then -
Happy reading...

Wednesday, April 14, 2010

Words About: Breaking Dawn by Stephenie Meyer


I feel satisfied that I made it all the way through this series. Breaking Dawn was very long and mostly enjoyable. Ms Meyer does have the ability to keep the reader reading. Ms Meyer has employed many interesting and varied concepts throughout her work and this last book is full of them.

I am totally unfamiliar with the folk lore surrounding vampires, werewolves, etc, so I am not sure where Ms Meyer gets all her inspiration from, but never in a million years would I be able to conjure up some of what she has managed to do.

I found the ending very 'soft touched' and bland, but ... did I really want to 'lose' any of the important characters??? Really??? So, I guess, it has a 'satisfying and comfortable ending.

I think the writing in this book has very much improved along with the journey. It's funny how we really lose touch with all of the townsfolk in the final books. I wonder where they all went? They obviously weren't that important...and Renée??? Where for art tho, Renée?

Overall, I am glad I stayed with these books till the end...am I changed by them? I can't feel that I am, but was I entertained? Yes, I was entertained, so for that, I am grateful.

happy reading... ( )

Words About: Eclipse by Stephenie Meyer


I enjoyed the last two books of this series to get me here to the third. This book however, was probably the one I enjoyed the least.

Again, Ms Meyer spends a long time building up to her dramatic events, only for them to be over in a heart beat. I find it such a long slog as I wade along with the storyline and when I am faithful right to the crux, I feel let down at the end...I kind of get the impression that if I'm feeling this, as a reader, then what must it be like if you are writing it? Ms Meyer was probably over it herself, by the time she actually made it to the exciting part, but just didn't have the stamina to deliver.

I particularly did not enjoy the triangle between Jacob, Bella and Edward. I found parts of this quite distasteful. There were many times when I did not particularly like Bella and again, I found her annoyingly whiny.

However, I persisted and found there is plenty in this book to keep me reading on. I'm looking forward to the last book in the series...will she, or won't she? ( )

Words About: New Moon by Stephenie Meyer


Ms Meyer endeavours to move the storyline along, but at a very slow pace. She tends to spend a very long time, building up her dramatic scenes, which can tend to get a little boring. Ms Meyer still writes like a beginning author and whilst I enjoyed the concept of the storyline, there certainly was room for tightening things up a little.

The driving force to getting the story finished was to move Edward back into it. However, while he is absent Bella gets the opportunity to grow her friendship with Jacob where action of a different sort emerges.

I enjoyed the concepts and ideas involved in this story. It is entertaining. ( )

Wednesday, March 10, 2010

Always There

You
You were
You were always
There
Everywhere!
No matter what.
I could always count on you
For little things
For major things

You
You loved
You loved me
The most
I could always count on you
Depend on you
Always

You
You were
You were strong
You always cared
No words can explain
My love for you
How dear you are to my heart
I miss you so

I
I long
I long to
See
Hear
Touch
Speak
Listen ... to your voice
Hear the whisper of your wisdom
I miss you so

One
One whole
One whole year
gone ...
Amazingly so

Time
Time echoes
Time echoes in my ears
Speed
Rushing
If only things could slow
Oh, I miss you so

You
You are
There
With Him
Your Maker
Your Dad
Your Father
I'm glad

The pain
The pain of this earth
Are gone for you
How sweet ...
You are in Heaven
And,
I am on Earth
Oh, how I miss you so

I
I love
I love you
So much
And
I remember
Your love
For me

Thanks, Dad
God Bless



written by Deb on the first anniversary of her father's death ~
6 September, 2004

Friday, February 12, 2010

New Beginnings


Choosing a new novel is an intimate decision. Something about the cover, the title, the look and feel of the book helps us to make our final decision of whether to read it or not. Maybe the way a book smells or the way it feels in our hand draws us into its unique journey or makes us replace it back on the shelf. The opening lines and first couple of paragraphs may be the lure to hook and reel us in...but once the decision is made to begin, a journey is set in motion, enveloping us in excitement and intrigue.

Another exciting time is when a decision is made to commit some time to a new project...and, for me, today is one such time.

This year is already shaping up to be a big year on a personal level, with an engagement party looming, and sprinkled throughout the remaining year, a twenty-first, a wedding, and another birthday of significance. For me the commencement of a new part-time job in the role as a Primary Learning Extension teacher at a large independent Christian school teaching Creative Writing to switched-on kids is a step back into a smidgeon of routine, which I haven't really had since completing my uni course. I think having a job helps me to keep to some sort of routine, so I don't fritter my life away.

I know this year is going to be busy and yet, I still believe I need to set aside some committed time to feed my own creative juices.

I meet regularly with three gorgeous friends who are interested in similar things to me. They all enjoy writing. We met at university whilst we were participating in a creative writing course. My course was a full-time post-graduate diploma in Creative Writing which I thoroughly loved. Upon graduating and finishing uni, my friends and I decided to make a pact to continue to meet up on a social basis with the option of sharing our work and interests. So far, we have managed to meet up regularly, but slowly the sharing of our writing has fallen by the wayside and been replaced totally by social interaction and business updates.

Two of my friends are now fully immersed in their small businesses, whilst my other friend has surrendered herself to the challenging and wonderful world of motherhood...all very important adventures. As I mentioned previously, I have returned to part-time teaching at my old school, but this time, I am teaching what I am passionate about...writing and books. This is a very exciting time for all of my friends, including me, but for different reasons.

After meeting with them recently, and hearing all their updates I felt satisfied on a social level. One of my friends who is busy growing her strategic based business 'Teak Yew' recently launched her Business Book Club and it was after listening to her speak of its success, I became very excited for her, but it made me miss one of the reasons we had decided to continue to meet up...and that was to share our thoughts about the books we were reading and our work we were currently writing.

So, with this in mind, Novel Tea 'n Pages has been born...beginning with a blog in order to jot down the process of setting up a Book & Writers' Club where people can meet up with others to discuss and share their favourite books and writing samples that they are currently working on.

This blog will serve multiple purposes. Space will be dedicated to books, writing, the club news and odds and ends. So, welcome...if you've happened to have stumbled upon this page...I hope you find something of interest. Obviously it is early days and today is just the start, but as time goes on, I hope to be able to build upon this foundation...

So, till next time...happy reading and writing.